Man using vibrator on woman

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While many of us embrace using sex toys without shame and rightly so! And while we may be slightly more sex-positive than we were, say, a decade ago, there's still so far to go. One major hurdle we need to overcome is the idea that women and people with vulvas who use vibrators during sex are replacing their partner. Luckily, a Reddit discussion just opened up about this very topic. On the AskMen thread, one user asked, "How does it make you feel when a girl finishes herself off during sex? Do you mind?

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How men feel when women masturbate and use vibrators during sex

Two Indiana University studies conducted among nationally representative samples of adult American men and women show that vibrator use during sexual interactions is common, with use being reported by approximately 53 percent of women and 45 percent of men ages 18 to Not only is vibrator use common, but the two studies also show that vibrator use is associated with more positive sexual function and being more proactive in caring for one's sexual health. The studies, led by researchers at the Center for Sexual Health Promotion in IU's School of Health, Physical Education and Recreation, are the first to publish data about vibrator use from nationally representative samples of the U. This lack of data has existed despite a longstanding practice by many physicians and therapists to recommend vibrator use to help treat sexual dysfunctions or to improve sexual enjoyment. One study surveyed women. The other surveyed men. Both were published this week by the "Journal of Sexual Medicine," a leading peer-reviewed journal in the area of urology and sexual health.

How men really feel when women masturbate or use vibrators during sex

Sometimes, you need a little something extra in the bedroom. And yet sex toys remain a taboo subject within many heterosexual relationships. These numbers are bigger than they ever have been, but they are still strikingly small. There is one main reason for this: men are taught not only that the penis and its size, shape and ability to get and stay erect is the symbol of their worth as men, but also that the phallus is the be-all, end-all of sex.
Plus, past research has found people who use sex toys also have better sexual functioning i. According to some sex therapists , the fear of being replaced by vibrators and dildos is apparently a common concern among their male clientele. To get a better sense of how couples are choosing to incorporate sex toys into their relationships, I tapped dating app OkCupid to ask how their users feel about the use of sex toys during partnered sex in general.